Holding Spiritual Boundaries
Many moons ago I was in mid session with a client who was fragile. I knew what she would come with so I set the tone of the container before she arrived. The time spent before session and after is essential for my boundary work and my client, along with the grounding and clearing container needed.
Mid session she spoke up and said, “there is a man saying mean things to me in my left ear.” I immediately knew that this was a lesson in finding what I had left open in my prep. Something was left unsealed and I was hell bent to find it. I stood up and commanded the space demanding he be removed at once, he did not have permission from me or anyone to be there. I got the sense this was perhaps an ancestral spirit, someone causing havoc in her line or even a manifestation of negativity and abusive energy over generations. Either way I was pissed.
After that moment I squared up a whole new set of preparation boundary work for every session I hold, and now no one is allowed without full permission from my most powerful light guides. Without that permission the door is sealed. I command this every time a client is on their way.
Not having these boundaries set up for yourself can and will drain you, but most of all can actually harm or lessen and even stop the important healing that needs to be done. Why this is not taught fiercely in all modalities has baffled me. But I digress.
This kind of boundary work comes with years of experience and sometimes potent lessons to guide you in where your leaks are. I’ve always felt that holding a container for another’s healing work is big sacred work, humbling, and a massive honor. It’s important to treat this work we do as such, in every step we take. It’s big work and I’m here to share this practice of sealing the leaks.
Healers, witches, holistic practitioners of all kinds are so important to me. We have superpowers that help people with massive inner healing work. I want to watch you grow stronger and feel your unfuckwithableness in the essential work you do.
Unbound & Unfuckwithable runs in spring and winter.